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Why do women cheat on their husbands? They cheat for some of the same reasons as men. Women and men both get bored with their predictable, dull relationships. However, unlike men, who stray more for sexual reasons, the majority of women cheat because of the lack of emotional fulfillment. Here are some of the top reasons why women cheat:
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1. Lust - Some researchers have estimated that as much as 20 percent of women who cheat do so for sexual reasons. So, it is not as high on the scale for reasons why women cheat, but it is still a factor for many women. Men would do well to communicate with their wives in order to determine if there is anything they can do to help their sweetie in this critical area of their marriage. There are a lot of excellent resources out there that can help couples with their sex life.
2. Unmet Emotional Needs - Most of the reasons that why women cheat falls under this broad heading. The majority of women who cheat report that they have important unmet emotional needs that their spouse is just plain unable or unwilling to meet. Men, let me just tell you straight up. Unless you actively strive to meet your wife's emotional needs, she is tempted just as much as you are sexually. Talk with each other often and take her "emotional temperature." Find out what she needs and do your best to make sure she has that.
3. Boredom - Women who cheat report a high level of boredom. Yes, women get bored with the routine of relationships, just like men do. They want to feel special, appreciated, and loved. Many men believe that once they "got the prize" after the wedding ceremony and the honeymoon is over, they don't have to work for their wife's affection. The truth is you probably have to work even harder. But, then again, you know she's worth it.
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4. Loneliness - Along with boredom, loneliness is another big reason why women cheat on their husbands. Why do you think that there is so much online marketing targeted for women. Advertisers know that they are lonely and bored. Women want and need excitement. Many women enjoy chatting online. A majority of women participate in online chat rooms. Women are very social and need daily interaction with another adult. They especially enjoy the attention of a man. It makes them feel wanted, desirable, and appreciated. Let me ask you something guys. What are you doing to help make her think and feel that way?
5. Disappointment with Mate - Both men and women who cheat give this as a major factor for their straying from their spouse. After the all the warm and fuzzy feelings go away early on in the marriage, both women and men see more of the flaws in their mate. Women in particular notice when we don't take care of ourselves (hygiene), or if we don't keep a promise to fix something around the house for her. They remember that you promised to take care of them. I know that life can throw us a curve ball every now and then and we can get off track. But, we have to know what is important to our wife. We need to know what her goals and dreams are for the future. Because if we don't, and if we fail to make any progress towards those goals and dreams, she may just decide to seek them with someone else. Period.
Why do women cheat? Mainly, women cheat because of a lack of fulfillment in their emotional lives. However, sometimes it can be for more sexual fulfillment. Of course there are other reasons why women cheat on their husbands. And yet, the crucial thing men can take from reading this is the importance of communicating with their wife and to take stock of where they really are in their relationship, and where they both want to be.
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